March 13, 2017

PhD journey

Assalamualaikum wbt lovelies...

I am back! The first post ever 2017.

And I'm proudly announced I'm officially a PhD student. Registered on 17hb Feb 2017 accompanied by my love husband.


July 27, 2016

Cerita HOT Raya 2016

Assalamualaikum wbt..

Hi guys..How are u doing so far? It's not too late to wish SELAMAT HARI RAYA all. Mintak ampun dan maaf if my words here hurts some of u or annoy u. Kosong-kosong?

So, tahun ni turn raya kampung husband!So far kami still follow the rule/turn. Secara kebetulan jugak MIL admitted in HUSM Kubang Kerian for 24 days. Then, a day before raya baru boleh balik. So,kami tak adelah rushing2 untuk balik raya. Raya tahun ni sangat berbeza.Its not raya sahaja tapi puasa sebab mostly tak dpt buka puasa kat umah.Most of the day berbuka dgn family di hospital.But its okay.New experience.

Lets get back to the main story.

Hari raya sememangnya hari yg kita tunggu dan ternanti2 every year.Tak sabar nk berkumpul adik beradik dan family.Jumpa sepupu sepapat jauh pon time raya lah kan.Dalam suka tu for person like me ada jugak rasa berdebar.Terutama bila kita nak jumpa sedara mara yg kita dah tahu bakal tanya soalan maut.Rasa kalau boleh xnak pegi beraya umah beliau.

My story is...

Since my MIL just back home from hospital, so tetamu yg dtg beraya kt umah MIL sgt ramai.The consequence is i dan hubby dont have so much chance to go beraya. So i feel a bit secure.

Tp,believe it or not manusia ni unpredictable.

I dont want to mention who he/she is. And i wont tell the whole conversation here. But, the sentences that make me mad (but in control) are...

'Jangan salahkan Tuhan.Salahkan diri sendiri sebab tak berusaha dapat anak!'

It was a conversation between him/her and my husband but i coincidently came in.

I dont know what my husband reply back but i said to him/her,

'I will not announce to people what i do, what are our efforts. And how come to said kami tak berusaha hanya kerana kami masih belom dikurniakan zuriat?'

That person keep in silence afta that.

And i got mad for that 2 minutes only.hahaha

Listen people,

Dont be so judgemental.Awak tak tahu apa yg kami lalui hari2..Awk tak tahu ape yg insan2 seperti kami lalui hari2 until anak2 awk sendiri or urself sendiri alami.Believe me!Awk tak tahu dah berapa ribu duit kami habis untuk rawatan,ubat dan supplement.So,please dont judge.

Paling sedih..yg bagi statement maut tu pernah alami hal yg sama.

SEE.....manusia mudah lupa KAN?

Till then...see yah!

June 1, 2016

Holla..5 months post.

Assalamualaikum wbt..

How your half year? Mine is as follows:

1) January-its New Year,New Resolutions? Forward what had left behind. In January i still waiting for a date for my viva-voce. And one of my master-mate already done her viva voce on 17th..And im still waiting.Poor me.But lifes must go on.

2)February-Report duty on 15th in UMP Pekan.Its also a short gateway for me before viva voce as I already got the date of viva voce on 23rd. Okay.What a release after viva.But it is a day to remember for my entire life. A bit tragedy for me but it also a turning point for me to improve myself.Thanks ALLAH. HE just ring me up that I still have a long journey to catch up..and many more knowledges and experiences to dig in.

3)March-All i do is my thesis corrections.I do it slowly since i have extra time.Hahaha.Overall it is about thesis corrections since i cant mesmerize anything else except going back and forth to the campus/lab.Then at the end of March i met my examiner.Phew everything goes well.She just like what i'm doing so far and of course some extra correction needed.

4)April-Continuously doing my correction. And i started helping my SIL doing her catering jobs.Plus had a few meeting with examiners to see my progress.And lastly i got her approval on 25th.

5)May-My month,Our month.My 27th birthday on 16th and our 3rd anniversary on 25th. Double celebrate it in one special dinner.Finally on 25th i got approval from PPS to do hardcover for my thesis after few formatting correction with Dr.Wan.Yeahhh.Alhamdulillah. And not to forgot..i had a mock teaching interview which i believe i dont get the job..

6)June-????Its Ramadhan.

That's all..
Thanks for reading.Do drop any comments if you are interested on any topic i wrote about.

March 6, 2016

Berkongsi kegembiraan.

Assalamualaikum wbt..

How are you everybody?Heyyy..I just passed my viva-voce last 2 weeks! Tapi cerita harini bukanhal viva..Viva post lain once I siapkan correction.

Last week dapat berita gembira one of my friend conceive!She's expecting!Syukur alhamdulillah.Im so happy for her. Knowing all their efforts to get one,MasyaAllah. Dan aku dan suami sesungguhnya belom sampai ke tahap itu.

It's not saying, we did nothing but belom sampai dan segigih mereka. For now,aku planning nak mengurut (dah lama plan sebenarnya) cuma aku takut.Sbb selalu diceritakan sakit. But,skrg tekad nk mengurut. Sakit tu kita fikir lain kali. Hadap je dulu.

That's one story..

Wassalam..

Thanks for reading




February 16, 2016

Siapakah saya?

Assalamualaikum wbt.

I knew some of my friends still confius what kind of job/study im doing right now.So this post is to summarize all the questions being asked by friends and some kenalan di alam maya.

Housewife or Student?
Both.Bila rajin jadi student,part timer housewife.Bila rajin jd house wife, partimer student.Bila superrajin,dua dua keje aku boleh buat,Ngurusin house chores sambil2 buat thesis.Kalau nak tengok aku jd super duper rajin,tambah satu lagi profession yakni mummy.Tapi tak ada lagi..hikhikhik.Doakan yer.

Felo Akademik ke Felo Asrama
Dedua.Tapi kontrak felo asrama unisza dah tamat semalam.Huray huray.Felo akademik dgn ump..

Felo Akademik tu jawatan tetap ke?
Tak pon.Cuma afta dilantik jadi felo akademik, uni tajaan akan bagi study leave.Maksudnye di suruh ko pegi belaja.Sampai abes study leave,pegi report duty.Mana yang tak amek PHD lagi,disuruh sambung PHD pulak.Macam my case lah..Abis masters,lapor diri.Cari uni utk PHD then pegilah mereput utk PHD pulak.Aku felo akademik UMP fyi.

Felo Asrama dpt benefit ape?
Diberi kemudahan tempat tinggal dan elaun shj.In my case tak dpt tempat tinggal pon.

Ape yg best jd Felo Akademik
Study ditaja jelah.Pastu adelah elaun-elaun yg uni tajaan bagi plus kementerian bagi.Berapa?Email aku kalo nak tahu sangat.Tapi boleh je korang google SLAB/SLAI Fellowship Programme.

Aku tengok ko dok umah je.Cuti sesuka hati.
Haah memang pon sbb aku boleh buat cuti aku sendiri tapi keje research/thesis/paper journal etc mesti siap before kau nak cuti.Notify supervisor kau cuti..passed assignment yg dah siap.Its all about discipline when you are doing masters by research.

Sem 1 dan sem 2 banyak ulang alik campus jumpa SV utk siapkan proposal,paper, experiments bagai.Dah masuk sem 3 aku dah start writing.So,dok umah jelah buat keje.Keje dah siap emel ke SV.Ualanglah proses tu sampai settle thesis kau.Eh aku.

Abis masters sambung Phd.Bila kau nak beranak pinak.
Bila Allah izinkan.Kunfayakun.Tak pernah planning.Lepas je.Cuma rezeki belom kunjung tiba.

Bila VIVA VOCE?
Next week.Doakan aku.

Itu sahaja.
Thanks for reading.
Any query do not hesitate to email me at nsyafiqahmnafis@gmail.com